Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Lirik "Selamat Tinggal" by Dina & Zizan

Selamat tinggal kawanku
Tak mudah aku pergi
Bila wajahmu
Sentiasa di hati ini


Ok
Dah memang
Bukan mudah untuk ku menerima hakikat
Dalam hidup ini sentiasa ku tersekat
Apa yang ku harapkan
Kasih sayang yang suci murni
Tetapi semuanya hilang setelah kau pergi
Dulu hari-hari ku berwarna warni
Kini kian mendung
Ia tinggal satu memori
Jangan jangan lepaskan genggamanku ini
Hidupku hanya bermakna jika kau di sini
Mana janji mana erti
Kenapa gembiraku kini menjadi sepi
Musnah segala apa yang ku impikan
Tetapi ku tetap tabah
Kerana Tuhan yang menentukan
Kau tetap pergi apakan daya
Walaupun ku telah mencuba sedaya upaya
Ku harapkan ini sesuatu yang kekal
Namun ku terpaksa melepaskanmu baby
Selamat tinggal


Selamat tinggal kawanku
Tak mudah aku pergi
Bila wajahmu
Sentiasa di hati ini


 
Tiada ertinya kau tinggalkan aku
Sedangkan teramat ku mengasihi dirimu
Cuba ingat semua yang kita pernah lalui
Sayang bukalah fikiranmu kembali
Ku tak mahu hidup tanpamu di sisi
Hanya kau seorang yang pernah aku kasihi
Jangan pergi jangan pergi
Jangan tinggalkan aku begini
Jika aku yang engkau cintai
Kenapa semua ini
Kenapa semua ini
Mengapa semua ini
Jika aku yang kau cinta
Mengapa semua ini


Kenapa semua jadi begini
Kenapa mengapa 
(jangan pergi, jangan pergi, jangan tinggalkan aku begini)

Selamat tinggal kawanku
(usah pergi)
Tak mudah aku pergi
(jangan biarkan ku menderita)
Bila wajahmu
Sentiasa di hati ini
(aku sentiasa di dalam dada kamu sayang)

Walau ku pergi sayangku
(usah pergi)
Dalam jiwaku ini
Kaulah cintaku yang kekal
Selamat tinggal 
(jangan biarkan ku menderita disini, jangan biarkan ku terseksa disini sayang)

Selamat tinggal kawanku
(usah pergi)
Tak mudah aku pergi
Bila wajahmu sentiasa di hati ini
(aku sentiasa di dalam dada kamu sayang)

Walau ku pergi sayangku
(jangan pergi)
Dalam jiwaku ini
Kaulah cintaku yang kekal
Selamat tinggal 
(aku menyintai dirimu sayang, jangan biarkan aku sendiri disini sayang)

Kaulah cintaku yang kekal
Selamat tinggal


( ) = Suara Zizan


Fireworks..

Do you ever feel like a plastic bag
Drifting throught the wind
Wanting to start again

Do you ever feel, feel so paper thin
Like a house of cards
One blow from caving in

Do you ever feel already buried deep
Six feet under scream
But no one seems to hear a thing

Do you know that there's still a chance for you
Cause there's a spark in you

You just gotta ignite the light
And let it shine
Just own the night
Like the Fourth of July

Cause baby you're a firework
Come on show 'em what you're worth
Make 'em go "Oh, oh, oh!"
As you shoot across the sky-y-y

Baby you're a firework
Come on let your colors burst
Make 'em go "Oh, oh, oh!"
You're gunna leave 'em fallin' down-own-own

You don't have to feel like a waste of space
You're original, cannot be replaced
If you only knew what the future holds
After a hurricane comes a rainbow

Maybe you're reason why all the doors are closed
So you could open one that leads you to the perfect road
Katy Perry Firework lyrics found on http://www.directlyrics.com/katy-perry-firework-lyrics.html

Like a lightning bolt, your heart will blow
And when it's time, you'll know

You just gotta ignite the light
And let it shine
Just own the night
Like the Fourth of July

Cause baby you're a firework
Come on show 'em what you're worth
Make 'em go "Oh, oh, oh!"
As you shoot across the sky-y-y

Baby you're a firework
Come on let your colors burst
Make 'em go "Oh, oh, oh!"
You're gonna leave 'em all in awe-awe-awe"


Boom, boom, boom
Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon
It's always been inside of you, you, you
And now it's time to let it through

Cause baby you're a firework
Come on show 'em what your worth
Make 'em go "Oh, oh, oh!"
As you shoot across the sky-y-y

Baby you're a firework
Come on slet your colors burst
Make 'em go "Oh, oh, oh!"
You're gonna leave 'em all in awe-awe-awe

Boom, boom, boom
Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon
Boom, boom, boom
Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon

KENAPA AKU MESTI DIDUGA?

KENAPA AKU MESTI DIDUGA?
HIDUP INI PENUH DENGAN UJIAN MMG PERIT DAN PEDIH UTK MENGHADAPINYA.TP KITE MESTI FAHAM  KONSEP ‘’UJIAN’’ DALAM PERSPEKTIF ISLAM. KERANA SEKIRANYA KITE TIDAK FAHAM DGN JELAS KITE AKAN CEPAT BERPUTUS ASA,KECEWA DAN LEBIH BAHAYA APABILA KITE BURUK SANGKA TERHADAP ALLAH SWT.JADI BAGAIMANA INGIN MEMEUJUK HATI YG SEDANG BERDUKA? PUJUK LAH DENGAN BERZIKIR DAN MENGINGATI ALLAH… DAN BACALAH AL-QURAN..SESUNGGUHNYA,BNYKLAH SUDAH ISI ISI YG TERSINGKAP DI DLMNYA…SEGALA JWPN ADA DI DLMNYA…

KENAPA AKU MESTI DIUJI?
‘’APAKAH MANUSIA ITU MENGIRA BAHAWA MEREKA DIBIARKAN SAJA MENGATAKAN;’’KAMI TELAH BERIMAN ,’’SEDANGKAN MEREKA TIDAK DIUJI??DAN SESUNGGUHNYA ALLAH TELAH MENGUJI ORG-ORG YG SBLM MEREKA,MAKA SESUNGGUHNYA ALLAH MENGETAHUI ORNG-ORNG YG BERDUSTA.
-SURAH AL-ANKABUTAYAT 2-3

KENAPA AKU TIDAK DAPAT APA YG AKU IDAMKAN??
BOLEH JADI KAMU MEMBENCI SESUATU PADAHAL IA AMAT BAIK BAGIMU DAN BOLEH JADI PULA KAMU MENYUKAI SESUATU PADAHAL IA AMAT BURUK BAGIMU.ALLAH MENGETAHUI SEDANG KAMU TIDAK MENGETAHUI.
-SURAH AL-BAQARAH AYAT 276

KENAPA UJIAN SEBERAT INI??
ALLAH TIDAK MEMBEBANI SESEORANG MELAINKAN SESUAI DGN KESANGGUPANNYA.
-SURAH AL-BAQARAH AYAT 236

RASA FRUST??
JGNLAH KAMU BERSIKAP LEMAH,DAN JGNLAH PULA KAMU BERSEDIH HATI PADAHAL KAMULAH
ORNG-ORNG YG PLG TINGGI DARJATNYA,JIKA KAMU ORNG YG BERIMAN.
-SURAH AL-IMRAN AYAT 139

BAGAIMANA HARUS AKU MENGHADAPINYA??
WAHAI ORNG-ORNG YG BERIMAN ! BERSABARLAH KAMU MENGHADAPI SGL KESUKARAN DLNM
MENGERJAKAN PERKARA-PERKARA YG BERKEBAJIKAN,DAN KUATKAN KESABARAN KAMU LEBIH DRPD KESABARAN MUSUH DI MEDAN PERJUANGAN,DAN BERSEDIALAH (DGN KEKUATAN PERTAHANAN DI DAERAH-DAERAH SEMPADAN)SERTA BERTAQWALAH KAMU KPD ALLAH SPY KAMU BERJAYA (MENCAPAI
KEMENANGAN)
-SURAH AL-IMRAN AYAT 200

DAN MINTALAH PERTOLONGAN (KPD ALLAH)DGN JALAN SABAR DAN MENGERJAKAN SOLAT,DAN SESUNGGUHNYA SOLAT ITU AMATLAH BERAT KECUALI KPD ORNG-ORNG YG KHUSYUK
-SURAH AL-BAQARAH AYAT 45

APA YG AKU DPT DRPD SEMUA INI??
SESUNGGUHNYA ALLAH TELAH MEMBELI DR ORNG-ORNG MUKMIN DIRI,HARTA MEREKA DGN MEMBERIKAN SYURGA MEREKA…
-SURAH AT-TAUBAH AYAT 199

KEPADA SIAPA AKU BERHARAP??
CUKUPLAH ALLAH BAGIKU,TIDAK ADA TUHAN SELAIN DARINYA.HANYA KEPADANYA AKU BERTAWAKAL.
-SURAH AT-TAUBAH AYAT 29

AKU DAH TAK DPT BERTAHAN LAGI ! ! !
…DAN JGNLAH KAMU BERPUTUS ASA DR RAHMAT ALLAH.SESUNGGUHNYA TIADA BERPUTUS ASA DR RAHMAT ALLAH MELAINKAN KAUM YG KAFIR.
-SURAH YUSUF AYAT 12.

Monday, April 25, 2011

How To Handle Rejection: 5 Essential Tips

Salam.. tips yg baik, credit to http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/how-to-handle-rejection-5-essential-tips/695/

So there you are at the deli counter getting a ham sandwich, when that person you’re attracted to comes and stands next to you at the counter to order a turkey sandwich. You’ve seen them over and over again at the store, and you finally have the guts to turn and smile at them . . . and they do NOTHING in return. They just look at you almost like you’re not even there. They almost look right through you like you don’t exist.
So you grab your ham sandwich and run out of there as quickly as you possibly can, saying to yourself “I will NEVER do that again. This doesn’t work. The next time I go back there I am just not going to smile anymore.” Is this the best way to deal with rejection? How do you personally deal with rejection? More importantly, are you someone who believes that if you become “good” at dating that you will no longer get rejected?
The truth is that being able to deal with rejection is the key to being successful at going out and meeting people. It’s also not the ultra-significant event so many make it out to be. So here are 5 essential tips on how to handle rejection which you need to embrace if you are going to have a full and successful dating life:
1. Change Your Expectations. One of the first and most important things you need to understand is that no matter what you do, not everybody is going to respond positively to you. Not everyone you smile at will smile back at you. Not everyone you say hello to is going to say hello back to you. Not everyone you make any sort of gesture to is going to respond to you positively (and in some cases won’t respond to you at all). This happens, and it will always happen at one time or another. You need to stop expecting a positive response 100% of the time. What you have to realize is that just because somebody did not smile back at you, does not mean that you’re not an attractive person or that you made a mistake by smiling at people. The only thing it means is that it did not work with that ONE person.
2. Life Is All About Rejection. Think about everything that you do in life. Everything in life has rejection involved in it. If you’re a sales person who makes ten sales calls, you may only get one or two of those people to say yes. In baseball, a player whose batting average is around 300 will likely end up in the Hall of Fame. In football, if a quarterback can complete 55% of his passes then he is doing pretty well. You get the idea. If you go to a store to buy a pair of jeans, you may have to try on five pairs before you find the perfect pair. Everything in life is about percentages. In any area of your life other than your dating life, you wouldn’t just quit simply because you experienced some rejection. Think if quit looking for work after your very first interview didn’t result you getting hired. That would, of course, be ridiculous. So remember that you also need to keep going in your dating life when you’re rejected, because you want to keep increasing your odds of success in that area of your life.
3. Focus On Increasing Your Odds: When you feel like you are getting more than your fair share of rejections, instead of focusing on those rejections you need to focus on increasing your odds of success. The fact is that by playing the percentages as I mentioned above, that you WILL be successful. The reason is that every time you take action – every time you smile, say hello or walk over and initiate a conversation – you get better at it. If you’re going to go out there and only talk to one person a day, and that’s it, then your chances of success are not going to be great. If you are this person, you need to increase your odds every single day and in everything you’re doing. You need to understand that if you approach someone and get rejected, it’s not a reflection on you. It doesn’t mean you did it wrong or shouldn’t have done it at all. It in fact could mean a million different things. Maybe the person was having a bad day. Maybe they have just lost every cent they have in the stock market. You’ll never know . . . and it doesn’t matter.
4. Keep Things In Perspective: I hear some version of this from clients of mine all the time: “David, what if I approach somebody, get rejected, and someone sees me? I’ll never be able to go in that store again (or that gym, that donut store, that Starbucks or wherever) and I’ll have to drive to the next town to do all my shopping!” You need to get a little perspective here. Let me tell you something – you’re not front page news! When you’re rejected, you need to just get over it. I promise that if you’re rejected by the deli counter at your grocery store, that the next day you will not see on Yahoo’s homepage or the front page of your local paper this headline “John Smith of Memphis, Tennessee was seen yesterday getting rejected at the deli counter of the local Whole Foods market … details on pg. 6 …” No one is talking about you. People are concerned about themselves and what is going on in their own lives, just as you are focused on what’s going on in yours. So the fact that you get rejected in front of other people at the market, at the gym, or anywhere else is not a big deal to anyone else but you. You need to keep this in it’s proper perspective: No one is going to be talking or thinking about you getting rejected except you.
5. Don’t Overreact: The other thing I most commonly hear from clients who have been rejected is some version of this: “I’m NEVER going to talk to that person ever again now that I was rejected by them.” This reaction is not only a total overreaction, but it is also absolutely the wrong thing to do. So you tried to talk (or smile or look) at someone, and they didn’t respond. As I mentioned above, there are a million possible reasons why that person did not respond to you. Maybe that person was simply having a bad day. Think about how many times you have been having a bad day and someone smiles at you, but you are just not in the mood to interact with others. So you have to realize that just like you have days when you just aren’t in the mood to talk to anyone, so might that person who didn’t respond to your hello at the deli counter. It doesn’t necessarily mean that person wouldn’t want to talk to you another time. If I smile at a woman and she doesn’t respond, I don’t play hide-and-go-seek the next time I see her. What I do is be equally friendly to her the next time I see her, because you never know what will happen that second time. You never know how someone will respond the second time. You never know what’s in their head or what they’re feeling. It’s a different day. Put the last time behind you.
These are some ways to help you get over rejection. You have to realize that in order to get good at interacting with the opposite sex, you are going to get rejected. In fact, you WANT to get rejected every single day, because if you’re not then it means that you’re not trying.
So ask yourselves this: Did you get rejected today, and how can you go out tomorrow and make it an even better day than today? Learn to not only handle, but indeed to embrace, rejection and you, too, will meet great new people and have an amazing social life.

A song for Mama...

Salam.. Cintailah ibubapa anda selepas Allah & Rasul.. tiada cinta yang lebih baik dari itu..
Insya Allah, byk kebaikannya...


You taught me everything
And everything you’ve given me
I always keep it inside
You’re the driving force in my life, yeah
There isn’t anything
Or anyone I can be
And it just wouldn’t feel right
If I didn’t have you by my side

You were there for me to love and care for me
When skies were grey
Whenever I was down
You were always there to comfort me
And no one else can be what you have been to me
You’ll always be you always will be the girl
In my life for all times

Chorus:
Mama, mama you know I love you
Oh you know I love you
Mama, mama you’re the queen of my heart
Your love is like
Tears from the stars
Mama, I just want you to know
Lovin’ you is like food to my soul

You’re always down for me
Have always been around for me even when I was bad
You showed me right from my wrong
Yes you did

And you took up for me
When everyone was downin’ me
You always did understand
You gave me strength to go on

There was so many times
Looking back when I was so afraid
And then you come to me
And say to me I can face anything
And no one else can do
What you have done for me
You’ll always be
You will always be the girl in my life

Chorus

Cinta ini membunuhku..

Salam.. hari ni mood nk dengar lagu sedih je.. huhuhu.. Monday blues la katakan.. aduhai..
 
 
Kau membuat, ku berantakan.
Kau membuat, ku tak karuan.
Kau membuat, ku tak berdaya.
Kau menolak ku, acuhkan diri ku.

[#:]
Bagaimana, caranya untuk,
Meruntuhkan, kerasnya hati mu.
Ku sadari, ku tak sempurna,
Ku tak seperti, yang kau inginkan.
[ Lyrics from: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/d/dmasiv/cinta_ini_membunuhku.html ]
[Reff:]
Kau hancurkan aku dengan sikap mu,
Tak sadarkah kau telah menyakiti ku.
Lelah hati ini meyakinkan mu,
Cinta ini, membunuh ku.

[#] ~~ [Reff]

[Interlude]

[Reff]

Woo... Hu~u... Haa...
Lelah hati ini meyakinkan mu,
Cinta ini, membunuh ku.

Aku bukan pilihan hatimu..

Salam.. lagu ini ditujukan kepada seseorang.. huhu..

Jika memang diriku
Bukanlah menjadi
Pilihan hatimu
Mungkih sudah takdirnya
Kau dan aku
Takkan mesti bersatu
Haruslah slalu kau tahu
Ku mencintaimu di sepanjang waktuku
Harus slalu kau tahu
Semua abadi untuk selamanya
Karena ku yakin
Cinta dalam hatiku
Hanya milikmu
Sampai akhir hidupku
Karena ku yakin
Di setiap hembus nafasku
Hanya dirimu
Satu yang slalu ku rindu

Ku menunggu... (lagu baru rosa ni)

Salam

lagu ni jadi kesukaan aku sekarang.. mungkin ada kaitan dgn kehidupan aku sekarang... *wink*

ku menunggu, ku menunggu kau putus dengan kekasihmu
tak akan ku ganggu kau dengan kekasihmu
ku kan selalu di sini untuk menunggumu
cinta itu ku berharap kau kelak kan cintai aku
saat kau telah tak bersama kekasihmu
ku lakukan semua agar kau cintaiku
reff:
haruskah ku bilang cinta
hati senang namun bimbang
ada cemburu juga rindu
ku tetap menunggu
haruskah ku bilang cinta
hati senang namun bimbang
dan kau sudah ada yang punya
ku tetap menunggu
datang padaku, ku tahu kelak kau kan datang kepadaku
saat kau sadar betapa ku cintaimu
ku akan selalu setia tuk menunggumu
repeat reff
haruskah ku bilang cinta
hati senang namun bimbang
ada cemburu dan juga rindu
dan aku tetap menunggu
haruskah ku bilang cinta
hati senang namun bimbang
dan kau sudah ada yang punya
ku tetap menunggu
(aku tetap menunggu) ku tetap menunggu
(aku tetap menunggu) ku tetap menunggu
ku tetap menunggu

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Aktiviti hujung minggu

As-salam.. hi diary, dah agak lama tak update blog ni.. Bz la jugak, lagipun tak ada benda nak citer. Tapi last weekend aku pergi PD, saja ikut famili pegi cuti ke sana.. Smpi pun dh sabtu.. Tp oklah.. dpt rehatkan minda n release tension.  Malam tu dinner kt golf club.. Hehe

Pagi Ahad tu pegi breakfast, kat satu gerai orang kelantan.. jual nasi lemak, nasi kerabu dan kueh mueh.. Satu yg aku nk puji dgn org kelantan ni.. Pergila negeri mana pun, mesti akan jual nasi kerabu atau berniaga makanan.. Dan mesti laris jualan mereka.. Yalah, cik mek molek la katakan.. ehehhe..

Lepas tu aku pergi lak bawak anak2 sedara mandi swimming pool kat hotel tu.. seronok, ada jakusi.. Aku pun rendam la kaki kt jakusi tu.. Hehehe..tak dpt mandi kolam dapat rendam kaki pun jadi la..

Tgh hari makan lagi kat gerai yg aku pegi pagi tu.. Lps tu, kami rehat kat hotel.. Then dalam pukul 4 lebih, kami pergi main GoKart.. Aku bawak Aqil (anak sedara yg sulung), kakak aku bawak anak dia yg kedua dan bongsu, ayah aku lak bawak cucu dia yg ketiga..

Macam biasala, aku tk kalah.. walaupun x berlumba, tp aku menang.. Cuma yg x berapa suka gokart ni - stering dia keras sbb x de power stering, seat pulak x ada kusyen.. sakit punggung sbb seat dkt dgn tanah... huhuhu... Tp apa2 pun seronok la.
Cuma yg x berapa syok nya, masa nk balik tu, lalu tol Lukut sbb nk pergi amik abg ipar kt LCCT, tiba2 tayar pancit.. Terkejut giler sbb dgr bunyi ape la meletup tengah2 jalan.. Yg x thn tu, smpt bayar tol dulu sblm check tayar.. haha.. Masa tu gelabah gak la.. sbb x pernah alami benda cmni.. Tp nasib baik la ada abg polis sanggup berenti dan tolong tukarkan tayar sementara nk pergi bengkel kan.. hehe. Terima kasih la kepada abg polis tu.. x mintak ape2 pun.. :D
Pastu smpi area Sepang jem la pulak.. Kebetulan time tu ada F1, So time tu orang dh sibuk nk balik.. jam teruk jalan tak ingat.. Berengsot kat simpang 4, polis ada pun jalan jem gak.. Sampaikan anak sedara aku dua2 dah  lapar.. Yg lagi 2 orang yg kecik dh naik kereta atuknya. Huhu.. lps amik abg ipar pun jalan jem gak. Nk smpi ke tol exit pun sejam lebih gak.. Padahal kalau hari biasa, x smpi 1/2 jam dh smpi tol.. huhu...
Balik dah penat.. Okla... zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. Time to sleep...

Inilah tayar yg pancit sbb masuk paku..
kat golf club, dinner dgn famili...


Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Rahsia Gadis Mengekalkan Keayuan


 credit to http://1001rahsiadiri.blogspot.com/2008/08/rahsia-gadis-mengekalkan-keayuan.html

Keayuan gadis tidak hanya terletak pada paras rupa. Ianya merupakan gabungan segalanya, dari hujung rambut hinggalah ke hujung kaki. Berikut merupakan diantara cara-cara bagaimana untuk gadis mengekalkan keayuan mereka.

Menjaga kejelitaan semulajadi (natural beauty) dengan tidak memakai bahan-bahan luaran tetapi menjaga emosi, fizikal dan mental. Gunakan masa untuk perkara yang berfaedah dan tentukan wawasan secara objektif, jangan banyak angan-angan. Tidur awal setiap malam dan bangun awal setiap pagi untuk solat subuh. Jangan tidur siang hari.

Menjaga suara. Latih diri bercakap dengan nada yang lembut, tidak sengau atau suaranya terlalu kuat.

Menjaga cara berkata-kata. Biasakan menggunakan perkataan yang melambangkan keluhuran budi seperti ‘tolong’ serta ‘minta maaf’.

Jangan gunakan perkataan
yang terlalu beremosi seperti bosan, sakit hati, menyampah, benci dan sebagainya kerana ia akan menyebabkan muka jadi berkerut dan masam.

Menjaga kulit. Kebersihan sentiasa dijaga. Makanan yang berupa ulam-ulam yang wangi serta sayuran dan buah-buahan segar patut selalu dimakan. Gunakan sabun yang tidak merosakkan kulit.

Menjaga muka. Tangan perlu sentiasa bersih dan lembut. Jangan gunakan bedak yang bukan-bukan.

Selalu menggunakan bedak sejuk untuk menjaga kulit muka. Jangan banyak berangan.

Menjaga rambut. Ia mahkota kejelitaan gadis. Bersihkan rambut tapi jangan terlalu kerap. Bila bersikat, ulangi sikatan ke seluruh bahagian kepala 100 kali untuk menjadikan rambut subur dan berkilat. Ramai lelaki suka pada gadis berambut panjang tapi kemas.

Menjaga cara berjalan. Latih cara berjalan. Jauhi dari berjalan mengengkang atau tangan terlalu dihayun. Langkah jangan terlalu besar.

Berjalan jangan terlalu laju.
Badan jangan terlalu membongkok atau tegak. Leher jangan terteleng (senget sebelah). Muka elok ditundukkan sedikit.

Menjaga gerak-geri. Bila duduk di atas lantai duduklah dengan cara bersimpuh. Kalau duduk di atas kerusi, eloklah sila panggung. Jangan mengangkang. Tangan jangan terlalu digerakkan bila bercakap. Cara bergerak biarlah lemah-lembut.

Menjaga senyum. Latihlah senyum jangan tersengeh. Tutup mulut bila ketawa. Ketawa secara sederhana. Selalu senyum tapi untuk tujuan baik.

Menjaga mata. Mata janganlah terlalu liar memandang sekeliling. Tundukkan mata dan memandang hanya kepada apa yang sedang anda hadapi. Jangan terlalu kerap mengerdipkan mata.

Usah terlalu kerap menjeling walaupun kepada buah hati anda.

Menjaga kehormatan.
Sentiasa bertemankan ibu atau saudara bila keluar. Minta izin ibubapa.

Pakaian sopan. Pulang seawal mungkin.

Menjaga sikap.
Taat beragama. Jangan bohong.

Jauhi dari merungut.
Jauhi dari menjadi amat cerewet dan jaga hati orang lain.